This book was wonderfully written. The Bible verses are so well explained and helpful when relating to real life. I’ve had to help family and friends through some hard times in marriage and this was so great to read so that going forward, I have reference for them. It’s so empowering for women who need a support system to navigate tough waters. Great job, Leah! How wonderful of you to share your story and help others!! I’m sure it will save many! 💗

– Jennifer Cetwinski

Leah’s story of healing after an abusive marriage and her desire to help others in the same situation is powerful and inspiring. I couldn’t put this book down.

If you currently are or have ever been in an abusive relationship, this book is like sitting down for coffee with someone who knows and understands your pain. She shares her wisdom and encouragement rooted in God’s Word as well as practical steps you can take to heal and find freedom. If you suspect you may be in an abusive relationship, this book will help you distinguish what abuse and psychological violence looks and sounds like.

If you want to know how you can help someone in an abusive relationship, this book will give you ideas on how to minister more effectively to them.

As someone who has never personally experienced a situation like Leah’s, reading this book was extremely helpful. It is an excellent resource for someone who wants to understand the dynamics of abusive marriages more fully and also to be equipped to minister to women in abusive situations.

Thank you Leah for sharing your story! Praying this book is helpful for many.

– Aimee Graper

I appreciate how the scriptures are integrated into the narrative without feeling forced. In some Christian contexts, scripture can be misused to fit a particular agenda, but Leah’s approach felt genuine and respectful. It was like “leading a horse to water,” allowing readers to reach their own conclusions and find their own path.

Her guidance is gentle yet firm, which is essential for individuals who already struggle with feelings of guilt or shame. This approach provides much-needed support for those contemplating difficult decisions, such as divorce, especially when societal or religious expectations weigh heavily.

– Candace

Easy read. Well written! Captivating, I couldn’t put it down! I wanted to know what was next. It’s a great book to read about the healing process of abuse and scriptures to back it up. 

– Lisa Woods

I love how Leah puts scripture into learning how we are loved by God. These are encouraging words for women who are in a season of pain and how they can overcome this dark time with a deep faith. Great book!

– Betsy Oliverio

This book is a very good read for anyone! I was very surprised when I finished this book. I thought it was going to be a biography of a Christian woman going through an abusive relationship and how she overcame it through Christ. While it is ultimately about the author, Leah’s story, it’s much more than that!!! A lot of people have lost a piece of themselves whether it be from something very hurtful said to them that they can’t let go of, a painful family relationship, a toxic friendship or just a time when someone is mentally broken..this book can be helpful in dealing with that lost time/self. It’s filled with scripture in turning to our Savior for help in restoring once was lost and learning to grow through it and be stronger on the other side. A true story of healing with the power of God’s love!

– Karen

Absolutely loved the book. Found her writing compelling. She brought you into the moment with her.

With every page turn, I related, I grieved, and celebrated the awakening. Spiritual rebirth of such.

I was married 19 years and 20 years later, still healing. This book brought clarity and a path forward which is freeing. So many of us have stayed in highly toxic relationships out of fear and guilt brought on by religious misunderstandings.

Strongly recommend reading this book and the sage advise and guidance toward healing and self preservation. To others out there… you are stronger than you think.

Simply , thank you for opening your heart so deeply to share your story and faith.

– Mary Beth

Such a healing book of encouragement for those putting lives back together after abuse and divorce. Also provides a better glimpse inside the circumstances of such relationships for family and friends and the church.

– Cynthia A.

I could not put this book down! It’s a powerful, poignant, personal experience of abuse and what God’s Word says about it.

The pervasive, insidious nature of emotional abuse is far more common than most people realize. Expect a lot of understanding and validation to jump off these pages into your heart, mind and soul, followed by a refreshing look into what God’s Word “actually” says about it. The author effectively dispells commonly misused and misquoted scriptures the enemy likes to use (sometimes even through Pastors!) to keep us complacent and stuck in the abuse cycle. With painstaking care, the author outlays the correct context to God’s scriptures on the subject, revealing a complete and actionable plan for true healing and restoration.

– Cyndi

I hardly ever write reviews but let me tell you…I have read many books on this subject and THIS ONE tops them all. It is concise, easy to read, compelling, compassionate, and FULL OF WISDOM on the subject of healing from trauma of any kind. I plan to share this book with as many people as I can. Thank you for opening your heart and sharing your story. – Rose Marie Allenstein